I think any scene showing rape in any form is horrific to watch.
I struggled watching "Passion Of The Christ" - it was more what they didn't show though. You saw Mary walking away, and it was noise/sound effects which let your imagination construct what might be happening. The stuff you did see wasn't easy to stomache either.
Also, the end of 'Saving Private Ryan', when they are in the deserted town, just waiting.... the anticipation of what might be about to happen to them is unbearable.
I teach Media Studies - I haven't subjected my kiRAB to the ey-ball splitting scene - I think I would have to be on hand with a bucket full of disinfectant and a big mop if i did!
J
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