Eternal Sunshine is in no way a chick flick! Come on! :lol:
Anyway, I loved this movie. Absolutely loved it. I didn't understand it the first time I watched it, but I thought the cinematography was beautiful and totally complemented the mood of the film (melancholic, wistful - thus all the blues and stuff). I've never seen Jim Carrey act better - his Joel was just the right mix of goofy and sad schmuck but something about him draws you to him; and Kate Winslet was his match as the fiery and impulsive Clementine. The supporting cast of Mark Ruffalo, Elijah Wood and Kirsten Dunst made for a very interesting sub-plot, and their roles were well-developed, too. And I haven't mentioned the obvious - that this is an incredibly original plot by the one and only Charlie Kaufman, with excellent directing by Michel Gondry. This is a very good explanation of the chronology of the events in Eternal Sunshine. Be warned: there are spoilers (obviously).
Plus, the soundtrack. I love Beck's Everybody's Gotta Learn Sometimes, and whenever I watch the movie, I fall in love with the song all over again. It's actually not that great a song on its own because it's just two verses repeating many times, but it just goes so well with the film that the song (together with the last scene of the film - I'm not including the fact that the song was played in the beginning credits, because that was too short to make an impact) becomes extraordinary. And I like The Polyphonic Spree's Light And Day (although I don't remember when it was played).
I watched it once in the cinemas and many times thereafter on HBO, and what I've realised is that, even after watching it so many times, everytime I turn on the TV and see it showing, I have to watch it anyway, I can't tear myself away even though I already know it so well. That, I think, pretty much sums up how I feel towards this amazing, amazing film.