On Sat, 09 Apr 2011 04:53:52 -0500, Omelet
wrote:
As I've aged, I've realized that there are no guarantees in life.
Everything has a calculated risk. That risk is always considered, even
if only subconsciously.
Screaming children are one of my pet peeves also. I don't mind a
moment or two of screaming from an unhappy child, but if the parent
just sits there and waits for the child to quit screaming, minute
after minute, I get angry.
Most of the nicer places I've been to will ask a parent to take the
child outside until quiet is restored. Cell phones? I don't mind if
they quickly disconnect when their cell rings. I've forgotten to turn
mine off also. I do object to loud conversations on a cell that I can
hear from three tables away. Its annoying and rude.
I understand your reasoning however. I go out to eat about one meal of
ten. I do so mostly to just go somewhere and I enjoy seeing some of
the regulars at the places I frequent. I've become friends with the
staff of many places after 30+ years of seeing them.
One place I go that is very, very popular in St. Augustine, Florida is
"Schooners" on US1 North. When I started going there, the original
owner had just split from another very popular restaurant, (Barnacle
Bill's", and opened Schooners.
Since then, she retired and her daughter ran the place for about 15
years. Now *her* daughter is running it. I enjoy seeing all of them
each time I go there. I've never heard a child scream in that place
where it lasted more than 30 seconds before the parents were asked to
take the child outside.
At home, I love my own cooking and I try to make my meals as
interesting and appealing in both taste and appearance. Since I now
live alone, it gets a little too quiet sometimes. On those nights, I
go visit with friends while dining out at an establishment I'm
familiar with and where screaming children are not tolerated.
I've found that the more expensive places that offer no savings for
small children's meals are the least likely to have ANY children in
the place and those who are there are generally very quiet and well
behaved.
My limit for meal price is $100 if the meal/location/atmosphere/staff
are worth it to me.