wait wait wait, your trying to blame food for 18,000 deaths? I bet most of those deaths are from people who DON'T exercise right?
if you cook food the right way and exercise, you will not have any health problems, this is more of a person to person issue then a food issue, also, there are many people in this world that just have bad genes, where one person with good circulatory system genes will never have a heart attack from eating the same foods as someone with bad circulatory system genes, it's a fact of life, even completely healthy people can die randomly from heart failure, it's happened.
these are just estimates, no fact, don't start trying to push something on someone without it being 100% fact, or you may regret it in the near future.
and if you think giving some fatty food is a death wish to someone and has a likeness to murder, what about thinking of everything else that kill people? thousands more people die every month from car crashes, should we restrict or ban the use of cars because of the accidents and deaths they cause?
NO, something is eventually gonna kill you, it's impossible to escape, some people survive longer then others, some don't even live long enough to take a breath at birth, it's the way things go, live with it.
stop worrying about things that can kill you, unless you want to live in a tiny box, sealed off from the rest of the world and not have a life at all, live your life to the fullest and not worry about such petty things.