What a topic, so many things come to mind, so little time.
I will start with the basics, the Care Bears. First of all, their whole conformaty thing, but let me add the idea of being sad is wrong. I remember one episode from the DIC series (one of the differences between the DIC and Nelvana series besides the animation and the villains, is the DIC series had the CBs help a kid of the week most of the time. Nelvana only once in a while) a kid was sad about something, and the Care Bears told the kid it is not okay to sad, so please smile . That is a great message, it is perfectly healthy to bottle up all negative feelings and put up a fake smile.
The Simpsons had the opposite message in season 1 when Marge told Lisa, if you want to be sad be sad. Amen to that.
Also in the Nelvana series in one episode the Care Bears help a girl (the one in the wheel chair in case you don't remember, BTW voiced by a young Tara Strong) make some gifts to give to her classmates, so they will be her friend. So basicly, they enable a kid to buy friends. What a great message.
Last but not least, even though there was no kid of the week involved, thankful they wouldn't want to see this and learn a nothing messed up lesson. The Care Bear Olympic episode, that jerk Braveheart DQs Beastly because he had a hunch he was cheating, even though he had to evidvence. It is okay to just character assinate somebody and take away what they earned without any type of trial. Granted Beastly did cheat, but still the Care Bears didn't have any proof.
When you look back, the Care Bears were terrible role models. They are just as wrong as the villains. Professor Coldheart and No Heart wanted to rid the world off all possitive feelings and have the world turn to darkness. If the Care Bears had their way, the world would be rid of all negative feelings, like sadness and anger, in other words rid the world of darkness. The world would be unbalanced if that happened, the lightness needs the darkness. A world of nothing but happy perky people, who are never sad or angry, that world is just as messed up as a world of depressed angry people that Coldheart and No Heart desire.