I, as a woman, have loved men before only to find that they want only sex. Having been hurt too many times, I find it difficult to love now. My trust in men has led to health issues also. If men are so full of love...let's see it please. I have been told by men that my independence and intellect intimidate. Men need to be needed I have been told. Can a man be a partner, without having to feel like she could not survive without him?