Let me start by saying that I am an American, I'm a 19 year old college student who just got back home to the united states after spending the last 5 months studying abroad in Australia. I travelled all over australia, Fiji, and new Zealand and I was shocked by how incredibly friendly everyone is to each other. Everyone always seems to be relaxed, smiling and treating each other with respect. Growing up in the states, I've grown up in a culture that seems like everyone is always in a rush, where you gotta get yours before the other guy gets his, people dont seem to be relaxed, and people are really quick to be defensive here in the states, why is that? The only other question about our cultural differences I want to ask is about our weight. I was shocked by how many really in shape people there are in Australia, obesity seemed almost non existent because it seems to be a cultural norm there for everyone to visit the gym on a regular basis, but America is almost exacly the opposite. I am a proud American because my country has so many opportunities, but the culture itself has gone really downhill. Why is this? What caused this? What's the root?