Of the various flavours of feminism, the ones that encourage the exclusion of males and the spread of misinformation in the form of skewed, false statistics etc, are the forms of feminism that have effed it up for those who actually love men , and want "humanism" and 'equity" that which includes both sexes getting along and helping eachother for eachothers causes.
Sorry for the long winded sentance.
I'd also guess that many self proclaimed feminists, have poor self image issues too , which tend to bleed into their dogma about "men being the azzhole oppressors of the world of women".
When some negative aspects of some feminist dogma starts out with the "woe is me" crap, (as it's easy to pick men as targets for all of one's problems), I tend to be really turned off.
Like a big circle jerk for "women only".
Men and women aren't equal. They're different.
They should , as Maya Angelou said, "strive for equity".