Everything you say is true of course, although extremely unPC. Have you been called a racist yet today?
Some of the people I look up to most in our society are African -Americans that went against the status quo and became successful without embracing all the negative stereotypes that pervade their culture... Such as playing off the race card, thug lifestyle, etc... And then used that success to help spread the message you are trying to spread.
People like Will Smith, Bill Cosby and especially Martin Luther King Jr. are heroes of their people, fighting what seems to be a losing battle against the propaganda machine that is American media. People like Jay Z and 50 cent make money off the strife and death of their own people. People like Al Sharpton and Jesse Jackson make money off the continuation of tension between the races. It is sad.