Have you got a link to the bit about the EBU rule chance and Liechtenstein? EDIT: Oh wait, I've found it. The rule change is that a broadcaster whose EBU application is pending would be able to apply to take part in Eurovision. I'm guessing that if their EBU application was turned down they wouldn't actually be able to take part in Eurovision and might even lose their participation fee? This means that Hungary's Duna TV could potentially still take part.
Also someone on ESC Forum has allegedly got a reply from the Slovenian broadcaster saying that both EMA and their participation will go ahead.
That 3JS song is a little better than there other songs which all appear to be utter dross. I totally agree with what you're saying about the Dutch language in music. I can't stand it, it was certainly never made to be sung!
I must admit, I struggle to enjoy any popular Dutch music, a lot of it is extremely dated. The popularity of De Toppers, 3JS and of course that dire number one of Sineke come to mind.