Actually the religious would disagree with you, why do you think they blow themselves up? Ask them, they tell you its their religious duty. It is a mind trick to claim they are not muslims. It is like someone claiming that this or that racist who takes the next step to murder wasn't a true nazi to dodge the blame for the ideology that pushed them along. Its not black or white thinking at all, its clear thinking...whereas the political correctness double of today has people bending over backwarRAB to excuse the inexcusable, avoiding assigning blame out of fear.
There is no need for demonization, held up to logic and reason such ideologies are found wanting. That is just how it is. I know you've ascribed to the current ideology of moral relativism where no judgement is possible, all differences disregarded/discarded in an effort at a false fairness or tolerance. But like it or not, religions are just ideologies, with an unfair protection of holiness attached to them, and thus a default expectation of respect they have not earned. Basically all religious ideology is defective, that is true. But the fact is some ideologies are worse than others, and in this case, this one is horribly defective.
Just looking at it rationally, jesus was what? A carpenter? He neither held or persued state power. His example is better than mohammed who wielded state power, mixed it with religion and the military. That is a horrible example. His texts are said to be direct from god as it gets, each word unchanged through time or interpretation and unquestionable. All defects permanent. The bible? Some second hand writings from multiple and contradicting diciples, there is ground for reform there. There is almost none in islam. You can't get around it, if scientology is a broken ideology, so is islam. Looking at the body count and troubles caused, one is far far worse than the other.