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sandra

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Okay heres the story I have been on depo shot for 4 years and i got off about 1 month ago my shot was due aug 5 thru the 10 i am not regular with my shot i miss it a lot so technically i have not had a shot for 4 months usually i would get my period right away after i miss my shot so it should have came areound aug 10 or a little after and it has not showed up me and my husband have been trying for a baby now for awhile. Well 4 days ago we had sex and he ejaculated in me and it never came back out it never did i am telling you and the last two days i have fely nauseated and also my gums swell up and i have had sores on my gums i am only with him so its not a disease and also the day we had sex i had a milky white discharge almost chunky and it is not an infection i went to the hospital last friday and the test was negative the day after his *** stayed in there i took a test and it was negative. Now tonight we had sex again and i was really dry not wet like your suppose to be and also it kinda hurt does this mean we may have conceived? is it suppose to feel funny to both people when your just starting a pregnancy? And also before my husband tasted down there and it tasted like a little blood but i wiped it on something and there was nothing? what could all this mean? yes i have asked the same questions but i really want answers everyday it is something diffrent with my body and the depo with me wares off very quick my periods usually come back right away
would a blood test show 4 days after i think i may have conceived?
 
NO A BLOOD TEST WILL NOT SHOW IF YOURE PREGNANT OR NOT.

IT TAKES UP TO 10 DAYS FOR THE FERTILIZED EGG TO ATTATCH TO YOUR UTERUS.

ALL YOU CAN DO IS WAIT LIKE EVERYBODY ELSE
YOU ARE GOING TO DRIVE YOUR SELF CRAZY. RELAX.
 
You cannot tell yet. Seriously, this is going to take patience and waiting. You cannot make yourself get pregnant. You ask this question all the time, and every time I have the same advice:

Go to the doctor. They can help you with a conception calendar. You aren't going to be able to tell for a few weeks after you conceive anyhow. Buy a calendar. Track your period. Take a test 2 weeks after your period each month. Mark what day to take the test, and stick with your schedule. If you take a test every day, you'll go broke and crazy.

Perhaps you need to educate yourself more on pregnancy. The depo shot can take a year to wear off. You really need to ask your doctor about this. Seriously.

ETA: A blood test would likely not show anything so soon.
 
I know it is hard to wait but that just what you are going to have to do. It is driving all of us crazy that are waiting the two weeks to test. Try to keep busy and not worry even though it is incredibly hard! Good luck!
 
Ok first of all Hun it is way too soon to tell. You need to wait a while before you even test. Even a blood test would not show up anything yet. You would need to wait at least 5 days before you even miss a period and also no sex would not feel different if you had have conceived. If anything you would be wetter but I have never heard of anything like that and the mouth sores..Nope,sorry that is not a sign either. I am sorry I know you might really want this but it is just to early to tell. Wait a while and relax and the retest later. Give it at least 3 more weeks. I know it is hard to wait but there is no test to tell this soon. Science has not come that far yet. Good Luck & baby dust to you:)
 
You cannot, no how, no way have pregnancy symtpoms 4 days after you had sex honey. Pregnancy is not an immediate thing.

Conception actually takes 1-2 days AFTER you do the deed and then it takes another week or so for implantation to occur. You can't get pregnancy symptoms until implantation as before that the fertalized egg is just floating around inside your body. It takes another 4-10 days after implantation to get a positive on a test.

You are just going to have to wait this out and test if you miss your period.

You are not getting pregnancy symptoms and it's too early to test even with a blood test. The earliest you can try with a blood test is 9 days after ovulation or sex.

Add: I couldn't help but notice you keep asking pretty much this same question since TWO days after sex...Honey seriously. Do some research on how the first weeks of pregnancy work. You are driving yourself insane. This could take you months and months and if you keep up at this rate you are just giong to be more and more disappointed if it doesn't happen right away. Please stop stressing about this. It will happen when it happens and educating yourself on the process may help.
 
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