That there are more than simple stereo (2-connector) 3.5mm jacks out there, check out the two bottom right ones:
http://www.calrad.com/calrad/cat-59page2.html
Two connectors could be used for stereo sound, one for mic, and one for tv-out.
Now -everybody- should be happy. IF nokia remembers the mic in there. Tech manufacturers all have the habit of forgetting a couple of minor, but crucial things in every cool device out there. A2DP comes to mind... good thing N95's got it! =)
I'm gunna get them new sony on-ear A2DP phones, with built-in mic... they look quite good, and don't have a plastic thinga-ma-jing behind the neck, but instead just a cord. =) Nice. Expensive, I bet, but nice.