parents acceptance of a girl from outside the culture for engagement!! what do i do?

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The situation recently is that i've been with my GF for nearly 6 years now and the problem currently is that she loves me a lot and obviously her friends are getting engaged left right and centre which is obviously causing doubts in her mind as to when the time will come for me to ask for her hand in marriage as we are now 26 and 25. however from time to time i ask myself whether i may be able to live with someone such as this who is not very good looking and complains about my actions a lot, sleeps early does not enjoy nightlife and creates issues about my lifestyle lately the biggest issue and jealousy factor which creates the distance is her having a job and me not where i end up complaining about my failure in life for not doing this. i do love her when we are together doing various things but when it comes to me being myself i think of what a nicer better looking girl i can achieve if it comes this way which obviously isn't good thing. My cousin has come recently to London and have gone otu with her friends whom are from my culture and religion and obviously my parents would prefer a girl from a background such as this and even my cousin was surprised at that i have been with an iranian girl for 6 years being lebanese by origin which makes me wonder why i'm wasting her time if it isn't acceptable by anyone and i am not achieving what i should be and have never had an ex being with one girl my whole life. I just don't know what to do and think that i will be at a loss if i leave my GF of 6 years after all this time......
 
Do her a favor and break up with her. If you think by being unemployed and being a failure will get you better woman, do it. She sounds to good for you.
 
All I see here are reasons why you want to get out of a relationship. Do you need an approval from us here or something? You want us to go, Yeah man, go ahead, you deserve better etc. Do HER a favor and end the relationship. You have wasted 6 years of her youth, and she deserves someone better than you.
 
be stronger than that. u only want to stay with her out of habit. leave her, if u can talk about her like that u dont love her so move on.
 
If you consider you are not achieving,what is it that you wish to achieve ? If you want anything in life YOU MUST GET OUT AND MAKE IT HAPPEN.Marriage and living together happily,is just a matter of compatability between the couple involved.Your discontent and doubts seem to be fuelled by shame,you have no job,she has.She sounds like a very intelligent,outgoing girl,who has a good personality.What more could you want,forget culture and religion,mankind was created to reach for the stars,not to lie down in cultural and religious shackles bemoaning his fate,yet doing nothing about it.If you want a life,GO OUT AND GET IT !!!
 
you have said enough. first of all you are not in love with this girl so what you have been with her for 6 years that means nothign and youa reboth not ready for each other. you know she has too many complains about you and it will get worse and as you marry you will not be happy. you are to be one in marraige and if you are not then move on and just tell her you are done with her. stay away and find someone new you will have to find someone to your own liking and that you cna get along with this is not hard for you living with someone saying those things to you and not happy with what you are doing that is not good take care and good luck
 
sounds like ur kind of an asshole u need to break up with her cause she doesnt sound like a peach either but u cant keep doing that 2 her and plus do u rly wanna b with some1 that does all that 2 u u guys both need 2 just get real and break up
 
sounds like ur kind of an asshole u need to break up with her cause she doesnt sound like a peach either but u cant keep doing that 2 her and plus do u rly wanna b with some1 that does all that 2 u u guys both need 2 just get real and break up
 
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