Ahh! You're modded (I was under the assumption you were stock), that throws everything out the window. Cyanogen's mod should have an app called "Work Email" which has exchange support. Have you tried that?
Okay, so is it in the rom? Is it supposed to be under "Account & sync" -> "Add account" -> "Corporate"?
That is the one I've been trying but with no luck, but should it say "Work email" or is it an app I can download somewhere?
Im gonna ask a question here
If my webhost doesn't support exchange, what are my options besides setting it up myself?
Could I use for example Google for this although I have my email somewhere else?
Could I buy this service from someone else although my webhost handles my emails?