All well said. I'm in the same boat with my N810. I used it all the time but web browsing has become such a pain. I've actually had some renewed interested since installing Tear and the browsing performance is very nice but realistically we need to see OMAP3 for the processor to be able to keep up with some of the sites we like to browse.
When I initially saw the N97 my thought was it was a convergence of convergence devices; brings all the good from my N810, E71 and N95 into a single package. And my experience with this processor with the E71 is really what keeps me interested and hoping that Nokia can get the performance necessary from the device. If not, then I wait for something better. The E71 serves it's purpose as I'm a messaging centric user (corp/personal email, calendar) but I like the vid/camera capability of the N95 and the large screen and high res from my N810.
I'm personally not interested in the gaming ability but I do expect decent vid playback without having to ensure that the vid is encoded to some stringent settings to get it to work. Time will see and I'm not in a hurry to place my order. There are enough that are to give me my user feedback to tell me whether to buy or not. And WOM needs to start sending these out so bloggers can get some time with them.