Did you fail to return his phone calls or did you fail to show up on your ship date? In any case you were never active I would assume and were enlisted in the DEP. In that case you need to check that they gave you an administrative discharge and after that you can go screw with another recruiter if you wish. If you didn't answer the phone he could only assume you were in a coffee house in Amsterdam and never to return so calling him a baby for your own immature actions seems more than a bit out of line. P.S. Do not go to the Army recruiter in your hometown, they all have your name and if you don't think the recruiters do not talk to each other AF, Navy, Marines and Army then you are deceiving yourself once again for being naive.