Marriage against family and culture, But good according to the law.?

[human]

There is a girl coming for an Asian country to Canada, after a few years she learned everything from A to Z in the country. so she found a guy on the street and she wants to marry him. The guy has no education, work, family value, respect for family and nothing which makes him an human.

The girl's parents are against this marriage, because the don't like the guy, our culture traditions and religion , doesn't allow is to let her sink in this deep sea of problems.

Also the government of Canada says: You have the right to keep and practice your Culture, Religion and Traditions, They say: If anyone breaks them, it is an illegal action.

We want to stop the girl, but the police says: You have no right to stop her, she has the right to do anything she wants.

Please write your comments, i will take your advice and guidance on what to do next.
He doesn't respect the girl's parents and family, he doesn't want to go to school and work, he wants the girl to work and make money for him.

The girl's family doesn't want him, but the girl has already escaped with him and left the family without any goodbye.
Can you believe this?

 

[reinadelaz]

I do not know this guy, obviously, but he must have some redeeming qualities of humanity for this girl to want to marry him. Just because he does not share your culture, religion and traditions is no reason to disqualify him from the human race. He must value family in some way or he would not seek to marry. I think you all are being way too hard on the guy, and in doing so, you are saying that you do not trust this young woman to make her own choices. But, if the values she was brought up to have are any good at all, you must be able to trust her to some degree. If you choose not to, you may lose her completely. It is difficult for immigrants to watch their offspring assimilate, but that is what happens when you move to another country. You either allow them to assimilate or you lose them, and the choice is yours. I encourage you and your entire family to give this guy a better chance to show his love for this young woman and consider embracing him as a future part of your family. My family is a mixed up bunch, and it is beautiful. God bless you all.

It is easy to believe that she left without a good bye when you all are treating her like a child incapable of deciding what she wants for her life. It is her life, after all. How can you all expect him to respect you when you will not even recognize he is human? In this part of the world, adult to adult, you have to give respect to get it. You may not agree, and Canadian law may say you can keep your culture, but the reality is that if you want her to be part of your family, you all are going to have to respect her choice. And I serioulsy doubt that the law says he must respect the same things you do. Why is it okay for you not to respect him, but he must respect you? Seriously, if you all want to live by Asian standards, you should have stayed in Asia.