I understand what you mean, because I'm 24 and haven't quite flown yet. But that's just it. You're moving out means your confidence will improve--you will start to see yourself as competent and finally in control and adult.
Advice: Hmm, first off, remember that a lot of people don't like to get out much, it can be a personality trait (introversion). When you are around people, the key words are: be rational. Sometimes, we imagine that everyone is judging us negatively and crticizing us when they look at us -- thinking things like that is the incorrect way to think
The truth is the people you meet will all be imperfect in some way, quite likely all with some sort of personality flaw or low self-esteem. It's true that everyone you meet is not even really focusing on you but just thinking about how they look/how they feel/if they seem interesting to others.
Don't be so hard on yourself. Being social comes naturally to a few but most of us have to work at it. It's a gradual thing. But let me tell you, getting out there meeting new people is WAY better than not meeting people, being stuck in a rut, alone. I have been there, still am there.
Hype yourself up before you go out. If dressing nice helps, do that. If wearing a particular shirt makes you feel confident and like Superman, wear that shirt. If there's a song that sets you at ease, listen to it before going out. Think of something relaxing when you are out.
Just remember to keep pushing yourself to meet new people. Not all people are bad and rude. It will feel uncomfortable but that's how you know you are getting somewhere.
you can do it. Believe in yourself. Take the energy you use to be afraid to not be afraid. Focus on all of the good things that can happen.
You will be fine. Hype yourself up. Tell yourself you are incredible and fun to be around. Take time to build your self-esteem each day. Practice and think of things to talk about. Learn something new so you can talk about it. One thing you can talk about: your new place.
GOOD LUCK!!!
