fair enough, its not recognized at the federal level
but whats the arguement against gays using the term "marriage" other than trying to separate gays from straights.
i voted no, but if i could have my say the government shouldnt recognize any marriage and instead have just domestic partnerships. if you want to get maried in the eyes of your religion and your respected god then so be it, you can at your church/synagogue/whatever of choice.
but that wouldnt fly with a strong majority of america