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Okay please read all. Idk wtf to do or what's going on.
My bf and I have been together for 3 months were 15 (me) and 18 (him). Both high schoolers. He's done some things within the past I'd say 2 months that's pissed me off. For example: commenting on other girls pics on fb, not talking to me as much as he used to, etc. Just not making me feel like his gf but it's sooo hard for me to leave him cause I love him.
Anytime there was a prob that I felt could ruin our relationship, I'd address it to him. But I guess he took it as me insulting him and telling him he's terrible. Every "confrontation" we had, he said he'd change. And he would get better. But it'd only last for like 2 weeks then he'd do something else to hurt me.
The thing is though, that's just the way he is. He said he's never cheated on me, and never will. And that I need to trust him or it won't work. So I do trust him. But everytime I come to him with a problem, he takes it the wrong way even tho he's usually nice to me.
A week ago, we got in a fight about how he'd comment on other girls pics on fb ALOT. He said he'd stop doing it (and has), but when I saw him Saturday (we live in diff towns so only get to see each other like 2-4 times a month if at most). His friend told me my bf was calling me physco. So when I confronted my bf he denied it then his friend was all "yeah I was joking"
But yesterday, a diff friend of his called me after school and said this is how their convo went:
friend: hey I talked to ur gf and I think there's some things u need to clear with her u should talk to her
my bf: haha she's probably mad at me. I'm telling you man, she's CRAZY.
So when I heard about that I told my bf to quit running his mouth to his guy friends and come to me if he thinks I'm being crazy. And he denied it til I told him his friend told me. Then he was BUSTED!! then I gave him this long speech about (this was ALL over text) about the difference between being an ass and actually being CRAZY and how sometimes his ways hurt me but I can love and accept him with his flaws and I said now can u HONESTLY do the same? Cause if u can't then.. Idk what to say. And he replied "I can I wish all my friends would stop talking to you trying to start shit." then I said how it's my fault too because he wouldn't come to terms with me etc so I ha to go to someone who knows him better than I do. And how his friends were only trying to help.
Then he never replied and 3 hours later at like 9:16pm I sent him a text asking if we were gonna be cool and let this immature shit blow over or if he was still mad and gonna call me crazy. And he never replied but I knew he got it. Then like 11pm he was on fb so I knew he got my message and was awake so I sent a final one that said "well when u decide u should let me know. Cause I don't want to feel like I'm wasting my time. and I'm not gonna be around forever at this rate." but he STILL never replied.
How should I take this???? Is he "thinking about it" or just being an ass? We never really broke up OR fixed anything!! HE WONT COMMUNICATE!!
My bf and I have been together for 3 months were 15 (me) and 18 (him). Both high schoolers. He's done some things within the past I'd say 2 months that's pissed me off. For example: commenting on other girls pics on fb, not talking to me as much as he used to, etc. Just not making me feel like his gf but it's sooo hard for me to leave him cause I love him.
Anytime there was a prob that I felt could ruin our relationship, I'd address it to him. But I guess he took it as me insulting him and telling him he's terrible. Every "confrontation" we had, he said he'd change. And he would get better. But it'd only last for like 2 weeks then he'd do something else to hurt me.
The thing is though, that's just the way he is. He said he's never cheated on me, and never will. And that I need to trust him or it won't work. So I do trust him. But everytime I come to him with a problem, he takes it the wrong way even tho he's usually nice to me.
A week ago, we got in a fight about how he'd comment on other girls pics on fb ALOT. He said he'd stop doing it (and has), but when I saw him Saturday (we live in diff towns so only get to see each other like 2-4 times a month if at most). His friend told me my bf was calling me physco. So when I confronted my bf he denied it then his friend was all "yeah I was joking"
But yesterday, a diff friend of his called me after school and said this is how their convo went:
friend: hey I talked to ur gf and I think there's some things u need to clear with her u should talk to her
my bf: haha she's probably mad at me. I'm telling you man, she's CRAZY.
So when I heard about that I told my bf to quit running his mouth to his guy friends and come to me if he thinks I'm being crazy. And he denied it til I told him his friend told me. Then he was BUSTED!! then I gave him this long speech about (this was ALL over text) about the difference between being an ass and actually being CRAZY and how sometimes his ways hurt me but I can love and accept him with his flaws and I said now can u HONESTLY do the same? Cause if u can't then.. Idk what to say. And he replied "I can I wish all my friends would stop talking to you trying to start shit." then I said how it's my fault too because he wouldn't come to terms with me etc so I ha to go to someone who knows him better than I do. And how his friends were only trying to help.
Then he never replied and 3 hours later at like 9:16pm I sent him a text asking if we were gonna be cool and let this immature shit blow over or if he was still mad and gonna call me crazy. And he never replied but I knew he got it. Then like 11pm he was on fb so I knew he got my message and was awake so I sent a final one that said "well when u decide u should let me know. Cause I don't want to feel like I'm wasting my time. and I'm not gonna be around forever at this rate." but he STILL never replied.
How should I take this???? Is he "thinking about it" or just being an ass? We never really broke up OR fixed anything!! HE WONT COMMUNICATE!!