I am 21 years and getting married soon... please advise me on my questions related to marriage...?

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In my college days I was hooked to videos and got into the bad habit of masturbation. Even though, I have stopped videos, my masturbation habit does not go. Please advise if disclosure to my wife about it can create any problems in our relationship? Should I continue with it after marriage as I may need to travel overseas after marriage for higher studies without her?
 
Please... don't get married... your way too young... and masterbation is normal...
 
you must be really good at hiding it. i leave my porn in the DVD player all the time -.-
 
1. your to young to get married try to enjoy your life while you got it2. yes you do need to tell her since shes gonna be your wife you two need to be open and honest with each other.
 
There is nothing wrong with occasional masturbation, as long as it does not interfere with your sexual relations with your wife. I would suggest that you are either completely open with her about it, or you avoid it when home, because having her walk in on you could be a problem if her beliefs are different from yours.
 
The 2 biggest lies told by guys...1. I don't frap it2. I'll stopIf your soon to be wife doesn't understand that then you have bigger problems. Or, more to the point...if she isn't willing to accept the fact that you do then that is a bigger issue.
 
there is nothing wrong with the masturbation. if you dont do it your body will do it without you realizing it so just chill on that.. you can sahre anything with your wife and sex is something one does only with their partner so you have to be open on what you feel on this aspects with your wife atleast.. Dont be scared on anything as long as you are truthful to your wife.. You are going to be in man world now with marriage.. so be a man now and dont worry too much on kind of things.. People masturbation even at 70s..lol.. Just kidding... but its like this..
 
I think 21 is young to get married. But I won't touch that one because your question has nothing to do with your age. Masturbation is not a disease or a problem so you can do it anytime you feel like it. But once you get married, you will not need to masturbate. But if you feel deep down in your heart that this will create a problem in your marriage then the only thing I can advise you not to get married until you solve this problem. And your girlfriend should know about this. But if this is not a problem for you and if you know it won't affect your marriage then there is no problem. If you have to travel then there is nothing wrong if you masturbate because I think that masturbating is ten times better then you cheating on your wife.
 
Like, how often are you tugging the mullet? Is it an obsession? Everyone does it... sometimes. If you're planning your life around the fleshin session, then maybe you should seek help. If it's only now and again, even once a day, then no problem. Anymore than that and you'll go blind you know ha ha. For heavens sake don't tell the Missus, somethings we just don't need to hear the gory details of, and I'm sure she, as an adult is aware that everyone masturbates. It reminds me of an episode of 'Roseanne' when Dan says to DJ "everyone does it buddy, but nobody talks about it.'" That's gold. " (if you're not from Rugby League country that will make no sense.) You sound a little immature (no offense intended) are you sure you're ready for marriage. Have you talked about things like - having kids/raising kids, do you agree on child rearing methods and the million other things that go into making a marriage successful? There is so much that goes into making a marriage work,are you ready for it? For the rest of your life, 'till the day you die, every single day-no holidays, no days off, every single minute of every day for the rest of your life? Good - then good luck.
 
Marriage is difficult enough without trying to hide things.Be open and discuss this with her.Maybe she can help you.
 
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