Like, how often are you tugging the mullet? Is it an obsession? Everyone does it... sometimes. If you're planning your life around the fleshin session, then maybe you should seek help. If it's only now and again, even once a day, then no problem. Anymore than that and you'll go blind you know ha ha. For heavens sake don't tell the Missus, somethings we just don't need to hear the gory details of, and I'm sure she, as an adult is aware that everyone masturbates. It reminds me of an episode of 'Roseanne' when Dan says to DJ "everyone does it buddy, but nobody talks about it.'" That's gold. " (if you're not from Rugby League country that will make no sense.) You sound a little immature (no offense intended) are you sure you're ready for marriage. Have you talked about things like - having kids/raising kids, do you agree on child rearing methods and the million other things that go into making a marriage successful? There is so much that goes into making a marriage work,are you ready for it? For the rest of your life, 'till the day you die, every single day-no holidays, no days off, every single minute of every day for the rest of your life? Good - then good luck.