Jessica Le
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I've been friends with this girl for a few years. when high school hit she changed herself to try to fit in. and basically made up stories to get attention. shes just trying to find out who she is but this is ridiculous. she actually told my friend "i dont know who i am. can you tell me who i am?" And it wasnt sarcastically. trust me. she ment it.
I've tried to just let this go. shes just not the same person i knew 4 years ago. but resently she asked me (throught the internet) why i dont talk to her anymore. this no longer can be ignored. I dont want to make it seem like im attacking her but she has to no. this has gone on way too long. we've tried telling her this many times before but it just goes through one ear and out the other. she said that she will "change herself" but she doesnt understand that we're not telling her to do anything and change anything. Just how we feel. this time it will me just me and im going to set this staight once and for all. is there anything else i can change or add to this to make it less "calling her out" or "back stabber" sort of thing?
I was hoping that you would just let this go and you would just phase away. but since you brought it up this cant be ignored anymore. call me old school but i prefer having this conversation face to face and not hidden behind the computer screen. otherwise your never going to get the answer. dont think that im attacking you cause im not. its just the truth.
and i have given her many chances to except who the new person she is now, but i just cant. Dont think im heartless cause this is hard for me to do. ive given her many years to see if the person i once knew would come back. i just cant take it anymore.
I've tried to just let this go. shes just not the same person i knew 4 years ago. but resently she asked me (throught the internet) why i dont talk to her anymore. this no longer can be ignored. I dont want to make it seem like im attacking her but she has to no. this has gone on way too long. we've tried telling her this many times before but it just goes through one ear and out the other. she said that she will "change herself" but she doesnt understand that we're not telling her to do anything and change anything. Just how we feel. this time it will me just me and im going to set this staight once and for all. is there anything else i can change or add to this to make it less "calling her out" or "back stabber" sort of thing?
I was hoping that you would just let this go and you would just phase away. but since you brought it up this cant be ignored anymore. call me old school but i prefer having this conversation face to face and not hidden behind the computer screen. otherwise your never going to get the answer. dont think that im attacking you cause im not. its just the truth.
and i have given her many chances to except who the new person she is now, but i just cant. Dont think im heartless cause this is hard for me to do. ive given her many years to see if the person i once knew would come back. i just cant take it anymore.