I want to accept that the guys I am surrounded by are alpha, full of themselves, and just want to have fun. I understand and can see things for what it is. It is just being a girl, I feel really out of place sometimes. The one person who I sort of appreciate is a perfectionist/stuck up guy and I am shock that I even want to be friend with someone like that but he has been so helpful with my project.
However, I think it is partly his background (architect/projectmanager experience). He is nit picky and like to get things done. I really admired that! The only thing I found distasteful is the way he treat/look down on other people when he feel like he is repeating himself, or think he is above other). I am trying to learn to pick up good skills and not his bad one. What can I learn from? He is always on the go and prefer to be alone (I think he also has a gf).
However, I think it is partly his background (architect/projectmanager experience). He is nit picky and like to get things done. I really admired that! The only thing I found distasteful is the way he treat/look down on other people when he feel like he is repeating himself, or think he is above other). I am trying to learn to pick up good skills and not his bad one. What can I learn from? He is always on the go and prefer to be alone (I think he also has a gf).