how should I introduce my love to my culture?

[Migeto]

I am from Andrexia (and Im 20) and I met a nice American girl (who is 27) at the internet. We have chatted a year now and we plan on getting married. We haven't met yet but we have talked in the phone. I haven't told my parents yet but I wander if they will accept her or not. Andrexi are very proud of there culture and I wander if my parents will accept me marrying a girl who is not Andrexi. My girlfriend from USA tell me she can come and live in Andrexia just for me. How do I get her to Andrexia? She tells me she doesn't mind living in a house without water at home as long as she can be together with me. We usually don't have the same standards in Andrexia as in America. Not my family. We are not rich but not the poorest. She is very interested in totaly different cultures and she says she is dreaming of having a totaly different, exotic wedding. I really want to marry her. She is in love with non-western cultures (especially Andrexi, Arab, Turkish, Armenian, Indian). She loves different, spicy food, colorfull clothe, oriental music etc. She really wants to come to Andrexia and live here. I don't really understand her but I really want to be with her for the rest of my life. The fact that she is 7 years older than me doesn't bother me at all. I love her. I feel really special when she wants to come to Andrexia and stay with me. But is it right? Will she long for America after living in Andrexia for some months?

 

[kiwi]

Ok i understand that you may have feeling for this girl cause you 2 have been chatting on the internet for a year now. But when it all comes down to it American women are liers. american people are very different then you. you cannot love someone that you have never met! It is impossible.... It is lust that you are feeling. meaning that you feel so in tune with this person this is a girl that has been nice to you someone that has listened to you. someone that has given you the time of day. americans are very different then people like you. we need certain things in life. meaning that we need to have running water, lights, cell phone, computers, cars, Friends, materialistic things, etc. it is sad but this is how we are. sounds to me like yuou are getting your hopes up and this girl is being nice to you cause she doesnt want to hurt your feelings. She will never come to where you are it would be very expensive and hard to ever get her there. It is a fantacy. She is telling you all thses things to make you feel good. it will never happen., it wis a dream.. that is it. If it makes you happy to talk with her thendo it but dont ever expcet thins isda of her coming to live with you to really happen. I bet you that this amaerican women is seeing other people behind your back. It is the american way. pople do it all the time. and you being from a forgin country will be waitoing for only her you will contiue to wait for what???? for nothing. you need to move on with your life be4 you have waisted all your time and effort on a person that isnt truely there for you like you are there for her. Move on and fine someone else,. you willl never get married to this ameriacan;. you need to wake up and come to the reality that you are living in a fiction not realtiy