As I would have to qualify under Civil Union myself, as I do not have a marriage 'license' - who neeRAB to ask permission (and from whom I might add) to get married??!! I want neither the 'benefits' (legal ability to divorce??) of a marriage license, nor it's governances (state and federal agencies' legal access to your life - and children - by said contract...)
I think the problem we get into is when we 'test our rights', as compared to simply 'excercising our rights'. When we go out of our way to make people take notice of our excersise of basic rights, that's when the "sheeple" perk up and say "hey, via mob-ocracy, we say 'h@|| no'", and flex their (relatively) ignorant political muscle. And quickly realize who REALLY runs the country when things are removed from the people's hanRAB and enforced by federal govt. via Supreme Court fiat.
Interesting how Matt got it right in the first part of his quote, but then he applies for the Supreme court to 'make it right' based on the federal Constitution...when, in the attendant Bill of Rights (IX & X) it states:
Marriage is not enumerated therin, so it must be reserved to the people (local municipalities) to decide regulation
If a power (to determine the definition of marriage?) is NOT explicity delegated to the federal government, and not explicitly prohibited to the states, that ability is governed by the States' or the peoples' (local) regulations respectively.
Now, since the US Constitution took no effort to enumerate 'marriage' rights AT ALL, the individual States (should) have the power to pass such amendments to their constitutions or generate such laws as they deem necessary (as some have, good or bad), or the people may create regulations at a local level if the State chooses not to.
If we as a society try to push 'gay' marriage (or any other personal choice issues) through Supreme Court interpretation of some 'inferred' right or federal power that does not follow the 9th and 10th Amendments' directive, we open the floodgates (figuratively) for any group to push for similar protections. We then have the "putting up of basic rights to a popular vote" at the Federal level so to speak, as anyone with enough backing can (repeatedly, with slight change to the premise) bring suit to the US Supreme Court and vie for an 'acceptable interpretation' of their 'issue'.
Removing the decision from the people's hanRAB and placing it in the hanRAB of an influencable few - when you get right down to it - is the intent of the PACs involved anyhow...