thanks for the info k.alexander .. i wish i have waited a bit for your post... now all gone
thanks again
on gmail account on pop Download i choose Enable POP only for mail that arrives from now on and choose leave a copy in the inbox ... on the phone there isn't an option to leave a copy at the server! any new email i download from gmail the old ones (a minute or two old) which still there on gmail server, disappears into thin air...