Cant take it anymore

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Faceleg

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I am seriously tired of all the crap that has been going on lately. I am really not looking for any advice, I just need to tell someone before I go on a damn roid rage.

What I have done to my parents, is beyond me. I am never allowed to do anything, at all. The most I am allowed to do is either use my computer, or sit in my room and play my Xbox my whole life. I mean, they have severely pulled me from all social activities. I cant talk to anyone, except for a few people, without being the quiet one or the one you don't notice. In school, I sit in the corner and don't speak or look at anyone. I think it is because I have been separated from everyone and everything, I dont even have the will-power to pull my self back to what I can, or should be.

This is how bad it is. I have been treated like this for so long, that when I am offered to do something, I just simply refuse. I think I am to the point that it dosent matter what I do, I dont think it is going to change. I have tried talking to my parents, convincing, and everything on the damn list to be allowed to converse and have a social life. But nothing ever works. Because of right now, there really isnt much of it.

I dont know how to come out of it. God help me when I am on my own, because the way I am raised, I dont think I will be able to cope with any challenge at all.

Me and a friend were talking about this, and I brought up the whole ordeal about counseuling. Maybe he thought I was kidding, but I think I do need some, not alot, but some. I am really not expecting any advice, but I just needed to let it out.

I just feel a little better now because people know that it is not all my fault ( some will probably disagree ). I dont want to be like this, but it seems that I dont have the choice right now.
 
You're 15. Granted I'm not much older but a lot changes in those years. Only things I was able to do at 15 was go to the mall on weekends and sometimes hang out at a friends house. Otherwise, I just skated outside my house.

And now 2 years later...I'm almost 17. I pretty much am allowed to come and go as I please.

Just wait. Pretty soon your parents won't be able to keep you locked up then you can hang out with your friends that you do have and you'll meet their friends and so on and so forth.
 
What more can I say?

Everytime I ask to go somewhere, let say to see a movie for an example, I get a shit load of lame excuses about why I cant go. Which in other words means, "No, you have to stay at home in your room, away from all socialization."

I really don't understand why this is going on. The only real friend I have is TehDay, only because we see eye-to-eye on these things. Everyone thinks that it is just my problem, and kind of just leave me hangning.

This is how I know something is wrong. Anytime I go to a friends house (which isn't much), I notice that if my friend asks their parents something, they usually get it. Not to say they are spoiled, of course the friend has to do something to earn the right to go. But it seems, no matter what I do, it just dosent work out that way fro me. I can clean house, my room, mow the grass, clean cars, clean garage and sweep the damn porch. But all that ever gets me is, and I quote, "A roof over my head, and food on the table". I cant complain with that. But at least let me get out of the house more often.
 
Yeah, there really isn't but so much you can do at 15. Your parents are only trying to protect you and keep you safe until you are old enough, they care and there is nothing wrong with that. Just wait a few more years and you will see. Don't let you self down about it, yes 15 is still a young age. If you are getting into trouble for you parents to make you stay home and such, maybe its because you are the one to break the rules.
 
Sorry for the double post, I guess epidemic responded as I was typing my next post.



First question, How in the hell did you know my age? eh who cares.

Second, at least you got to go places. I'm not even aloud to goto the mall and just hang out. I cant even date a damn girl without them getting on my ass about it, which would probably lead to why people think I'm gay, which evidently I'm not. If only people understood, then it would be a whole different story, I would be able to cope with it then.
 
Well i was only saying, not saying you did. But like i said, you parents are just being protective of you. Maybe they could be a little over protected, but that is only because they care about you and don't want anything to happen. I mean you are ONLY 15. If you think you are being over protected, then sit down one day/night and have a talk with your parents and ask them that one question as to why? I don't know what else to say, you are still just a kid and that is the way they see it too.
 
Yea, your right. It just sucks when your stuck at home, knowing that there is some type of party (and when I say party, i mean get together, not the whole drinking ordeal) at a friends house, and you cant be there.

Owell, I guess I'm just gonna have to live with it. Few more years, it'll be alright I guess lol.
 
Hey, i use to be in your shoes at that age. I actually got grounded a lot for some stuff that i shouldn't done. I am 22 now and i realize the fact of why they did that and I sorta honor that. Yes, i use to say how it wasn't fair that I couldn't do this or do that or even go on dates. Once i turned like 17 and 18 and so on, I was free from all that. You will see :thumbsup:

Oh, and the ones you see getting their own way all the time and going out whenever at that age. Look at them in few years and see what they may have become. I see some of the friends and some that weren't now and they either do drugs, do stuff they shouldn't. I have seen some get pregnant, or get someone pregnant at 16/17 cause their parents let them go too far, and now they are work bound, no school, and probably pulling their hair out...lol. So be lucky you have caring parents!
 
Your public profile is how they know your age. Anywho, just fucking break a rule. Seriously. If your parents won't let you out, fucking leave. If they tighten the reings anymore just break 'em again. If they really regulate your life the way you say, there is no reason to abide by that.

Because you'll end up like that creepy robot guy from Grandma's boy.

Get out and live life. Or just tell your parents that they need to lighten up because keeping you in the house all day is not helping you out in life.
 
It may just be me, but I don't really want to have to go through with that. I would rather keep it as their fault, then give them a reason to do this. I can live with it, trust me. If I know it gets better, like above posters have said, then I'll just live it through. Other than that, I don't think its worth the rebellion. I know its not worth it.
 
I agree with the Funny One. Like I told you today ryan break a rule. Then theyll start seeing your not a little kid anymore. Get pissed off and start speaking your mind. your problem is you keep everything bottled up and thats the way I used to be.

Next time they do somethin like that speak your mind, and if they bitch somemore leave.
 
I did that on the way home from your house. I dont even really remember what I said, but I'm sure it didnt work. You know how it is.

But the last thing I want to do, is something wrong. Like I said before, I would rather have it wrong on their part then on mine.
 
Dont worry, they'll get over it. My parents used to be like that. Till I decided to be the biggest pain in the ass I could be. Now whenever I whanna go out they cant wait to get me out of the dam house so, yeah. It worked for me, Thats all I can say.....
 
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