Are there any NORMAL, attractive, educated, well rounded women left?

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james c

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I just don't understand it anymore. I'm 26 going on 27 and can't seem to find a decent woman. I usually attract the crazy ones, the married ones, or the ones that just want to flirt/have one night stands.

I'm an attractive, well built, educated, athletic guy...I don't do drugs, don't drink too much, and have a good paying job. It just seems to me that the women I find attractive are already taken, or are too young.

I work a lot, so it's hard to find time to socialize. When I do, like I said, I get the crazy ones who tell me they love me after a couple weeks. Or they stalk me!

I just got out of a long term relationship with a girl I planned on marrying. She ended up hacking into my e-mails, my facebook account, tried getting into my online banking to see where I was spending money, and would contact women that I was just friends with to tell them not to talk to me!

Are there any single, normal women left who actually care about men?
That's the problem. I met a girl the other day at the bar who just got out of a relationship. She's drop dead gorgeous, perfect body, great personality..she's just young..turns 21 in august.
Another girl I met is 24, but is still into the club scene, and partying all the time...
I value my job, and want to settle down soon, not want to try endless hours to make something work
 
Yes, your problay looking at the wrong places try like joining a sport getting friends to set you up or joining a church youth group. Or joining a site like e-harmany.
 
wow., what a nut job your ex was! my problem is pretty much the same but reversed. I cannot find any half decent guys who want anything more than a one nighter.

u should open a club or something for norms to meet other norms.
 
There are alot of crazy women in this world. It is hard to find a normal one. I say do your best and if some girl comes even close to normal, try to work it out with her. At least that is what i am doing. I have already given up on taking women seriously

What makes you think that these your girls won't go for you because you are older. You can still pull young females at your age.
 
Dude I feel like the things you described about yourself sounds just like me lol. I too attract the crazy girls and the ones that are too young. I don't know what it is but I just can't find an educated well rounded woman. They are out there but it's so difficult for me to find one so I'm thinking I'm doomed to be single and lonely for the rest of my life lol. Oh well...better start focusing on getting my degree and getting a good job. My future is more important right now I guess. Although having a girlfriend and getting my degree would be great too.

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Yea man forget those party girls. They're no good for a serious long term relationship. Find a nice girl to settle down with. Best of luck man.
 
"Attractive" I think therein lies your problem.

You're probably shallow. Honesty is the best policy, people.

Be more open to not so "attractive" people. You might just find the love of your life.

As for me, I give up on white men. I've been treated like crap so many times by white guys. I'm sticking to Asian men. They treat me better. (I'm white btw and 27)
 
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