no they should teach you how to swim. my bf's mom dwas in the Navy and they taught her...though it was 30 years ago. you need to know how to swim. you are in the navy...
I am trying to get this straight....I dont know if you were the first girl or the second. and if you broke up with your partner why are you still with him??....i don't care how good he is to you when you two are alone...but if he really loved you, he wouldn't be ashamed and embarassed of you...