armpit hair is gross... but expected on a guy. I think a guy with shaved pits would look wierd though... I know of a few guys who had to shave their legs, for sports though, bikers, swimmers...some bodybuilders -that doesn't freak me out too much anymore. I'd never ask a guy to shave though, nor do I think I'd like it.
The other stuff though... is really strange.
(I'm curious, I take it from this post you're a guy, yet you have a female sign next to your name?)