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Ex partner hit OUR baby,
handed himself to police in April,
He is on bail and cant talk to us,
I in no way condone what he has done, but i don't want him to go to prison, i have no one, and i mean no one.. I doubt i would ever be able to resume our relationship because of what's happened, but i do want him around, even if in a controlled environment, is there anything i can do? I'm not saying i dont want him to be punished, i just dont want him to go to prison, I feel so stressed right now, the only thing stopping me from fallin apart is my child i just want this to be dealt with. I'm kept in th dark with everythin all i get is a phonecall after court dates saying courts been ajourned or whatever. i live in a house his parents own they want me out so they can get their friend in as she can pay money and i cant. He is with th family at th moment who cant be helping him, they are very violent people.. im so stressed.. I'm struggling with money.. ive been told to write a letter to the Judge... ? will they really care as I dont really count in this do i...? Im sorry if it seems im ranting im just trying to explain myself.
thank you anyway
I do care about my child's dad- this is all of a sudden. I am not scared of him, and even though this has hurt so much, no one will ever come before my children EVER. I just want the support he offered us before. Not knowing what's going on or what's going to happen is driving me crazy. If it wasn't for our child i would be a wreck. So writing a letter to the judge is pointless? thank you again
Ex partner hit OUR baby,
handed himself to police in April,
He is on bail and cant talk to us,
I in no way condone what he has done, but i don't want him to go to prison, i have no one, and i mean no one.. I doubt i would ever be able to resume our relationship because of what's happened, but i do want him around, even if in a controlled environment, is there anything i can do? I'm not saying i dont want him to be punished, i just dont want him to go to prison, I feel so stressed right now, the only thing stopping me from fallin apart is my child i just want this to be dealt with. I'm kept in th dark with everythin all i get is a phonecall after court dates saying courts been ajourned or whatever. i live in a house his parents own they want me out so they can get their friend in as she can pay money and i cant. He is with th family at th moment who cant be helping him, they are very violent people.. im so stressed.. I'm struggling with money.. ive been told to write a letter to the Judge... ? will they really care as I dont really count in this do i...? Im sorry if it seems im ranting im just trying to explain myself.
thank you anyway
I do care about my child's dad- this is all of a sudden. I am not scared of him, and even though this has hurt so much, no one will ever come before my children EVER. I just want the support he offered us before. Not knowing what's going on or what's going to happen is driving me crazy. If it wasn't for our child i would be a wreck. So writing a letter to the judge is pointless? thank you again