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a guy i like recently split up with his gf, me and him got close quickly but nothing has "happened" between us. this week his ex has been txting him loads trying to get back together with him. he's told her that he wants to be single at the moment but has kind of given her a little bit of hope that if she changes he'll get back together.
i don't want this guy to get back with his ex. she's a bad influence on him, she sulks whenever he wants to go see his kids and spends his money come pay day (and gets mad when he goes to give his ex child support). i want me and him to carry on as we were, neither of us wants to rush into a relationship, just spend loads of time getting to know each other but ultimately with the aim of getting together.
so what would you do? walk away and let him get on with sorting things with his ex, or stay and fight, show him how much better off he'd be with you etc. i'm torn 50/50
i don't want this guy to get back with his ex. she's a bad influence on him, she sulks whenever he wants to go see his kids and spends his money come pay day (and gets mad when he goes to give his ex child support). i want me and him to carry on as we were, neither of us wants to rush into a relationship, just spend loads of time getting to know each other but ultimately with the aim of getting together.
so what would you do? walk away and let him get on with sorting things with his ex, or stay and fight, show him how much better off he'd be with you etc. i'm torn 50/50