Would you stay with the person if he/she has sex issues?

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SEXY MAMA

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At the beginning of the relationship sex was great because you both just got to know each other. But what if one of them has sex issues. Meaning they cannot feel anything when having sex. No sensations at all. For that person is just sex while the other person is enjoying it.

The person with the problems soon stops wanting to have sexual relationships and is not giving the other person anything just something maybe 3 or 4 times a month. So the majority of the time the other person is masturbating.

Would you continue being in the relationship with the person you love and care about a lot and have a couple of years together?

Do you think you can continue or eventually leave that person?
Im the one with the problem and i am just so tormented at the fact that he will leave me. I give him what he wants but basically forcing myself bc i love him. And i know how important sex is. And his sex drive is huge. Im really scared but have faith that our love will not drive him to cheat on me.
 
If I was truly in love, I would do anything I could to stay with the person I loved.

Being a guy and having testosterone and a large sex drive...it would be hard, but true love is always harder to get rid of.
 
let me tell you once a week is considered average for married couple with some years, but if the person doesn't have any interest in sex and is not interesting to the other person then it may be time to get out now or go to counsling about it. The persons should discuss it between them and make the problem apparent.
 
I think you should stay with that person. It's not their fault that they cannot feel it. If you really love them, it shouldn't matter.
 
yes i would if you love someone enough you'd think that the person you love is more inportant than how good or what they feel during sex thats how i feel
 
Stay with them and work it through. If need be go with them to see a sexual therapist. Your problem is not insurmountable and a solution can be found if you remain supportive through this difficult period.
 
My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year and half and have been sleeping together for about half a year and "fooling around" for about a year. (We are 18 and 19)

Anyway, I really enjoy sex, I want it all the time, I'm a little bit addicted to sex. My boyfriend just doesn't seem to want it as much. Like he'd be okay with not having it very often, maybe once a month. Meanwhile I want it like twice a day. We end up having it like, 4-5 times a week but only on two or three days (that's how often we see each other).

But it can be frustrating for me when I want it so much and he doesn't. But we are working through it and we will make it work!
 
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