Would you marry a man who has a history of domestic violence?

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Would you marry a man who had a history of being physically abusive toward his girlfriend 15 years ago.

He started being violent with her within the first 6 months.
And has never been violent towards women again since they broke up.


Keep in mind you love him.
And you have been together for almost 2 years and he has never been violent towards you. with many opportunitys to, and many reasons and serious arguments where you'd expect it would happen.


He was honest and open about it once the relationship got serious.

And at the time (15 years ago) he was a drug user.
 
In 15 years someone can learn a lot of lessons and become a better person. I am a firm believer that any person can change if they want to. They don't always do it but it is possible. You said that you've been together for almost 2 years and have seen no violence. From everything you described, he seems to have changed tremendously. That's very good and personally I think I would give him a shot. But if there is ever 1 time that he is violent with you and you do nothing about it, I promise there will be a second. So my advice is just be careful...if he doops you once shame on him, if he doops you twice shame on you.
 
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