Would you feel hurt if a partner lied about their sexual history to you?

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I've had sex twice...with two different anonymous men. The first was in Canada, the other was in the US, and both were from Craigslist. We used protection and I've been tested, and I don't regret either encounter.

However, there's a young woman for whom I have feelings, and if the feelings are mutual and we become a couple, the topic of sex is going to come up. She's already told me she's a virgin, and I've already told her I'm not, but that was just casual conversation with several other mutual friends and we didn't go into details.

Anyway, I like this woman and I don't want to scare her off by telling her that I've had sex with people from Craigslist. I'm thinking, if the situation arises, I will tell her that I met the first guy at a bar (which I did go to, but afterward, and not with him) and the second guy at Pizza Hut (which I did, but that was only where we met up).

I know that relationships necessitate honesty, but I don't know if she'd be ready for that or receptive to it. Again, I don't have any problem with safe anonymous sex, and I know I'm clean, but I don't want to worry her. Would it be unethical to tell her that I met my partners at bars/restaurants and just had a one-night stand?
 
Yes my boyfriend told me he's only been in 3 relationships. and he's slept with many girls and it gets me pissed off
 
Well, when you are in love with someone, you really do not want the image shattered. I would just say that I had had two brief encounters and it was not a lasting relationship but just interesting. Since you are clean with no STD, you are telling the truth. You are under no obligation to explain the entire two brief encounters. It is just part of life. Things just happen in life. Live life today and do not worry about the past. If she loves you, it is OK.
 
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