My ex boyfriend and I separated 2 months ago before I moved. We kept in contact because there was a pregnancy in the midst and the baby was lost. Almost 2 weeks after the baby was lost, he asks when was the last time I had f*cked, made love, or had sex. Now to my description of make love & f*cked/had sex are two different while the other 2 are the same. I told him I had not made love since him and I did it, but I had sex last week with my ex. Im not working anything out with my ex I recently had sex with nor do I plan on it anymore. Remind you I am single and this is a past time person not another number to sexual partners. I can still count on one hand and I am well over a legal age. He says he hadn't done anything since we last did it because he felt we would be back together. So to have more of an opinion on this matter...
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Would you consider the person nasty & not a christian because they had sex?
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No. But if someone thought that about me I wouldn't be offended because the opinions of others are completely personal to them and have nothing to do with me.
I am sorry to hear of your loss. I just want you to know that your Savior loves you, more than you can ever fathom. He suffered and died so that you would have the opportunity to overcome sin and death and return to him. If you are feeling badly for your past actions, then there is a good chance the way you are conducting your life is not in harmony with the teachings you believe. If you are a Christian, then you know Christ would want you to be married if you are going to engage in intimate relations. The beauty of the Savior and his sacrifice on our behalf, is that we can correct our course and repent, ask forgiveness for our wrong doing...and he will forgive us and help us to do better in the future. WE cannot change the past, but we can follow the teachings more closely in the future and be worthy of the rich blessings God will give to us when we are obedient to his teachings.
As a Christian, we take upon ourselves his name and attempt to follow his example. We are not perfect...which is why he suffered on our behalf so that we would not have to suffer the pain of sin. Repentence can bring true joy, and the "clean" feeling you seem to be lacking at this point. Respect yourself enough to wait until marriage to engage in procreative powers (making children) so that when they do come, they will have a loving mother and father and not a broken home.
There is nothing you can do that would make God not love you...he loves you more than you will ever fathom...take care...I wish you a beautiful future in Christ.
As a Christian, we take upon ourselves his name and attempt to follow his example. We are not perfect...which is why he suffered on our behalf so that we would not have to suffer the pain of sin. Repentence can bring true joy, and the "clean" feeling you seem to be lacking at this point. Respect yourself enough to wait until marriage to engage in procreative powers (making children) so that when they do come, they will have a loving mother and father and not a broken home.
There is nothing you can do that would make God not love you...he loves you more than you will ever fathom...take care...I wish you a beautiful future in Christ.
I am sorry to hear of your loss. I just want you to know that your Savior loves you, more than you can ever fathom. He suffered and died so that you would have the opportunity to overcome sin and death and return to him. If you are feeling badly for your past actions, then there is a good chance the way you are conducting your life is not in harmony with the teachings you believe. If you are a Christian, then you know Christ would want you to be married if you are going to engage in intimate relations. The beauty of the Savior and his sacrifice on our behalf, is that we can correct our course and repent, ask forgiveness for our wrong doing...and he will forgive us and help us to do better in the future. WE cannot change the past, but we can follow the teachings more closely in the future and be worthy of the rich blessings God will give to us when we are obedient to his teachings.
As a Christian, we take upon ourselves his name and attempt to follow his example. We are not perfect...which is why he suffered on our behalf so that we would not have to suffer the pain of sin. Repentence can bring true joy, and the "clean" feeling you seem to be lacking at this point. Respect yourself enough to wait until marriage to engage in procreative powers (making children) so that when they do come, they will have a loving mother and father and not a broken home.
There is nothing you can do that would make God not love you...he loves you more than you will ever fathom...take care...I wish you a beautiful future in Christ.
As a Christian, we take upon ourselves his name and attempt to follow his example. We are not perfect...which is why he suffered on our behalf so that we would not have to suffer the pain of sin. Repentence can bring true joy, and the "clean" feeling you seem to be lacking at this point. Respect yourself enough to wait until marriage to engage in procreative powers (making children) so that when they do come, they will have a loving mother and father and not a broken home.
There is nothing you can do that would make God not love you...he loves you more than you will ever fathom...take care...I wish you a beautiful future in Christ.