Its really annoying that girls are smiling to me!
i have never had this thing in high school,but now in college,i wasn't ready for this ,any girls i pass by smile for me,or at least stare at me.today 2 girls,that always treat my friends with aroggancy,starred at me while passing me..i was shocked that such kind of girls r attracted to me.... it was really frustrating.....come on iam not that attractive!!! but what annoys me most is that i cant smile back...it just feels awkward...what's the point behind smiling back when at the same time i really suck in talking to girls....my personality and confidence ,unlike my looks, are non-attractive....this "be your self "policiy doesn't work with me...because my real self gives bad impression about me..iam not saying that iam a bad ill mannered guy...its just that i really suck when it comes to talking to the attracting girls,it happens even sometimes with the normal looking ones....i can't say somthing funny,the words that comes out of my mouth aren't clear....while on the contarary,iam really fun with my pals,all of them laugh at my jokes and i really feel comfortable around them...i wish iam the same with girls...and what bugs me most is when i see the pretty girls following guys that aren't as attactive as me(i know,looks doesn't matter),this really decreases my self esteem,it makes me think that iam not worth them..
anyways ....all of this is annoying...i endured it from middle school.....any suggestions? no joking around plzzz
i have never had this thing in high school,but now in college,i wasn't ready for this ,any girls i pass by smile for me,or at least stare at me.today 2 girls,that always treat my friends with aroggancy,starred at me while passing me..i was shocked that such kind of girls r attracted to me.... it was really frustrating.....come on iam not that attractive!!! but what annoys me most is that i cant smile back...it just feels awkward...what's the point behind smiling back when at the same time i really suck in talking to girls....my personality and confidence ,unlike my looks, are non-attractive....this "be your self "policiy doesn't work with me...because my real self gives bad impression about me..iam not saying that iam a bad ill mannered guy...its just that i really suck when it comes to talking to the attracting girls,it happens even sometimes with the normal looking ones....i can't say somthing funny,the words that comes out of my mouth aren't clear....while on the contarary,iam really fun with my pals,all of them laugh at my jokes and i really feel comfortable around them...i wish iam the same with girls...and what bugs me most is when i see the pretty girls following guys that aren't as attactive as me(i know,looks doesn't matter),this really decreases my self esteem,it makes me think that iam not worth them..
anyways ....all of this is annoying...i endured it from middle school.....any suggestions? no joking around plzzz