would my grandad tried to sexually abuse or harrass me?

Han

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ive alredy asked this but iver shortening it as much as i could
k so basically no one in my family likes my grandad cos he has done bad things in his life that i think is sick ( like he used to hit my nan and he cheated on her and was never a good father or grandfather) yet my family gives him a home because they are good at heart and the guy is old, i never liked the vibe around him and as i grew older i came to understand what he had done and grew up hating him to

HOWEVER is there a limit to how sick a man be?? lets go back to when i was 11, 6 years ago, i remember laying in my bed about to go to sleep until my nan walked into my room ( i lived my my nan and 4 aunts, long story) anyway and she sounded concerned and asked me if my grandad has ever put his feet anywhere near me or something like that or touched me i think, i dna i was very young and at the time and vaguely remember but i was like wtf, so basically my nan told me to just not go near him, maye she told me this because she doesnt want me near an evil man i dna

after later that year me and my mother had moved out and she got with someone and i stil used to have long weekeneds around my nans, my nan has a dodgy layout in the bathroom which we have now changed but there used to be a wall with a frosted glass window and in between the shower and the toilet but the wall was open at the top so when someone was in the shower we had to let everyone know so they wouldnt walk in cos although the window was frosted u can still see through.
i was having a shower once and it was obv cos u could blatently hear the shower from outside, so i was having a shower and he open the door on the other side of the wall to go toilet, and i started screaming in panick cos i was naked so i automatically called my nan, it took her time to come over but before she did he was still standing and were he was standing u could see someone through it, my nana came running and shouted at him,

he didnt do this incidence once but 3 other times and mostly done it with me, sometimes i catch him stare at me cos i get lippy and he looks really vexed like his gonna kill me.
do u think the man is sick or am i just looking into it? do u think it was a coincidence it happened alot when i was having a shower and so on? i feel dirty talking about it :S
 
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