About three years ago my husband left me and our 2 children to move to the states. He said that he would get settled there than move us there. He vanished from me and even his mum and three brothers. I did not know what happened, it scared me. A few months after he left I found out that he did come back to Australia to get his girlfriend that he had behind my back. He has not called anyone in his family or me and his kids. I felt very depressed for a long time. I did not know what I was going to do. My husbands younger brother started helping out. He was the only one unmarried and did not have children. He made sure we were ok, he helped financially when he could. He even started babysitting so I could work. About a year ago we started a relationship, we were hesitate at first. But than we realized it made sense. My son who was only 14 months when his dad left now calls his brother dad. There grandparents his mum and dad are happy that we are together and that in a way the family has been vindicated for what my ex husband did. Two days ago he asked me to marry him. Everyone in my family, his, and alot of our friends believe that we should get married that we make a great family. But I am scared and a little afraid that this may be wrong. I would just like some unbias opinions about this or maybe someone who has been in this situation. I know it is long and I am sorry for that. Thanks=)
@ Maine yeah you kinda do have to read. But if you do not want to that s ok too=)
@ Maine yeah you kinda do have to read. But if you do not want to that s ok too=)