If it's just friends, seriously, if it is, then run your idea by your husband. That way you will know. Some people will tell you it's wrong all together, others will say it's okay if you have lunch with your male friend b/c your spouse should trust you.....but I am always a firm believer that when you have these types of issues....the best choice is to be upfront with your husband...there's your answer. And if you feel you can't be upfront with your spouse b/c you fear "they would get pissed etc, and blow it out of proportion".....then I question your logic b/c if there is no romantic attachment then no reason to be a secret.
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would it be wrong going to eat lunch with another man when I'm married?
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first of all, why does it matter that your husband is WHITE?
Secondly, going out to lunch is not cheating. However, it is the first step towards something that can quickly turn into cheating and, if you are serious about wanting to remain faithful to your husband, you need to remind him that it is only lunch, and it might not hurt to pay for your own meal. If he makes even the faintest of advances on you, leave and cut off any communication with him you can, and under no circumstances be alone with him again.
Finally, I must question why you are even married. You havent seen your husband in 5 weeks and when he tried to get you to come see him you chose not to because it is an "inconvenience?" More so, you enjoy having your apartment to yourself? Personally I would reconsider why you got married in the first place because from what you wrote here (just about yourself and not even in reference to your study buddy) it doesnt even sound like you care to be married that much.
Secondly, going out to lunch is not cheating. However, it is the first step towards something that can quickly turn into cheating and, if you are serious about wanting to remain faithful to your husband, you need to remind him that it is only lunch, and it might not hurt to pay for your own meal. If he makes even the faintest of advances on you, leave and cut off any communication with him you can, and under no circumstances be alone with him again.
Finally, I must question why you are even married. You havent seen your husband in 5 weeks and when he tried to get you to come see him you chose not to because it is an "inconvenience?" More so, you enjoy having your apartment to yourself? Personally I would reconsider why you got married in the first place because from what you wrote here (just about yourself and not even in reference to your study buddy) it doesnt even sound like you care to be married that much.
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I have been married to my white husband a year now. My white husband is on a business trip abroad right now. He's been there 5 weeks and is supposed to be there 3 month. He wanted me to go and visit him for a few days but I said no because it would be an inconvenience. I miss him but it's nice having the apt to myself.
I'm 23 and in college I have got many friends there and a lot of male friends even if my husband doesn't like that. There's this man who I have been studying with we have kinda become friends he knows I'm married but the other day he asked if he could buy me lunch one day. I said yes. But is that wrong since I'm married?
I'm 23 and in college I have got many friends there and a lot of male friends even if my husband doesn't like that. There's this man who I have been studying with we have kinda become friends he knows I'm married but the other day he asked if he could buy me lunch one day. I said yes. But is that wrong since I'm married?