Would it be weird to see this guy again if this happened...read on?

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Pat S

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I had a crush on this guy that worked at a store that I shop alot in the mall. I found him on facebook and emailed him a few times. He responded but didn't seem too interested. I sent one email that said I saw him at a restaurant with his friends and I specified the date and where. I guess he thought I was stalking him and he blocked me from his facebook and deleted me from his friends list. He still works at that store in the mall and I always shop there before he started working there. I'm too embarrass to go there and see him when I pay for my items. What should I do? Just ignore him and pretend it never happen?
 
Act natural, do your own thing . If he is uncomfortable, he may not even ring you up or go near you . I doubt he will be that creeped out to quit his job .
 
pretend it never happened.
just be friendly with him, just pay for your stuff and go.
 
well if u still like him, tell him u r sorry and didnt mean to be awkward,u were just interested in getting to know him.

if u dont like him anymore, just forget about it. if u would like, apologize to him. then let it go.

hope this helped! good luck!
 
you have to tell him how you feel cause he could of thought you where someone else
 
you should have went over and said hi when you saw him at the restaurant, now you have to stay away from the store or try and show up on his day off
 
Yess! well, I would tell you to try and explain to him the situation starting with, Im not stalking you I just shop at this store a lot. That's what i'd do hopiping he'd laugh it off. But otherwise if he doesnt know how you look just be a regular customer.
 
You should still go to the store in the mall when you want to. If you are embarrassed, don't make conversation. Just check out and act casual. If he ever decides to give you a second chance, don't be so specific. By being specific, he thinks you are following him. For example: instead of stating the date and time, etc., you could just say, "Hey I saw you at Walmart." Be casual. Don't apologize. That will make you seem clingy. If you still like him, wear something nice and have a lot of fun when you go to the store. That will not only make him notice you, but it will make you less nervous when you have fun. It will relieve your nerves and tension between the two of you.

I took my time to answer this because I want to help, so I hope you take my advice and erase your rep as a stalker. :)
 
It would be the obvious thing to do just don't
make a big deal out of it or he will notice and think
that you actually were stalking him

.....P.S : make sure you never do that again though,..just a thought
 
Well You should just treat him like a customer would treat a cashier...
Don't make your embarassment keep you from going too that store..
If he's one of those people who notice everything he might find it strange.
if you want you can go there and tell him "sorry if i sounded all Leann Rimes stalker like when I said i saw you and your friends at that restaurant.. I was really bored and surfing on facebook and I happened to see someone I recognized there (him)... didn't mean to sound like a creep... so no hard feelings right?"
with that you'll both undo the creepyness and still be able to go to the store that you like.

And if you still like him after that act completely casual and don't go all flirtatious immediately because you'll look all desperate after just clearing up a misunderstanding.

Hope I Helped and Good luck.
 
thats pretty awkward
you could say one of your friends likes him and thats y you were talking to him or that it was your friends but you wouldnt want to bring that up outta nowhere
have someone talk to one of his friends about you being with some other guy to make it less awkward
or take a guy with you in the store!
 
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