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Dee D
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First, this is a serious question & I would apprecaite serious answers. I have a male friend whom I've known for 10 years, we have only been friends although I have always had much stronger feelings for him, there were 2 intimate encounters between the 2 of us over 8 years ago. He's now 30, in a spur of the moment unhappy marriage which hes already filed for divorce over & doesnt have children. I myself got married & divorced a few years ago to another man & have 2 children from the marriage. Point is, I want to see my friend happy, I want to see his genes be carried on if -God forbid- something were to happen to him, he is a wonderful person but hes been hurt so many times he's afraid of relationships which is why we never offically moved up from friend level. I'm not looking to trick him in any manner I just know he loves kids & wants children, it would be an honor for me to be the mother & Im not trying to push him into a relationship either, just want him to experience the joy of fatherhood. I hope this is making sense,its hard to put into words. I have no idea how to mention this to him but time keeps slipping away & I dont want to regret having not put it on the table as a open offer for his consideration.How should I word this to him or is it just a crazy sounding bad idea I should keep to myself?