Sparrowbird
New member
Me and my ex were together for a long time and we only had had sex with eachother. I valued that a lot. Now we've broken up, he's slept with someone else (what used to be a friend of mine) and I feel really messed up over it. I can't help it, I just feel completely hurt and messed up.
Will finding my own partners help me face that? Will sex with someone else/some other people who I don't plan on being with for a long time make me see this in a more healthy light? Or would it make it worse?!
I don't really feel entirely comfortable with the idea of sleeping with anyone else, but I also don't think I'll ever feel entirely comfortable sleeping with anyone else possibly ever, and surely that's not good for me either. When I dedicate to something, I really dedicate to it, and now I'm really lost.
Advice?
Will finding my own partners help me face that? Will sex with someone else/some other people who I don't plan on being with for a long time make me see this in a more healthy light? Or would it make it worse?!
I don't really feel entirely comfortable with the idea of sleeping with anyone else, but I also don't think I'll ever feel entirely comfortable sleeping with anyone else possibly ever, and surely that's not good for me either. When I dedicate to something, I really dedicate to it, and now I'm really lost.
Advice?