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I've been married 3.5 years. I have only ever had about 3 or 4 orgasms during sex with my husband and this was all on our honeymoon. I havent had an orgasm in sex for over 3 years!! If I want to climax then I have to help out at the end through clitoral stimulation. I am sick to death of this. I always feel upset afterwards and although I know its not all about sex, I know its an important part and Im always left feeling like somethings lacking. i feel bad for my husband as well because I dont want him to feel like its his fault. What if he is a great lover but me and Him are just not compatible? It scares me that this could be the way its going to be until I die.
Before you say all this - Yes we've talked about it, Ive given direction, blaa blaa etc. Still feeling lost. Maybe we arent doing it right haha..
please help me! Some advice?
I've been married 3.5 years. I have only ever had about 3 or 4 orgasms during sex with my husband and this was all on our honeymoon. I havent had an orgasm in sex for over 3 years!! If I want to climax then I have to help out at the end through clitoral stimulation. I am sick to death of this. I always feel upset afterwards and although I know its not all about sex, I know its an important part and Im always left feeling like somethings lacking. i feel bad for my husband as well because I dont want him to feel like its his fault. What if he is a great lover but me and Him are just not compatible? It scares me that this could be the way its going to be until I die.
Before you say all this - Yes we've talked about it, Ive given direction, blaa blaa etc. Still feeling lost. Maybe we arent doing it right haha..
please help me! Some advice?