Work Issues... Life Issues

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oscar b

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The last 3 months have been absolute hell. Me and my girlfriend of three years seperated. She said she was afraid of commitment without experiancing the rest of the world. i.e. 'I want to fuck other guys before i commit'. I moved and struggled for a month and landed an ok job as an admin for a bail bond corp. The boss was awesome, hired me and my friend together. Even gave us money for clothes by giving us extra hours on our checks. Then they forgot some hours on my friends check, he brings it up and they say theyll fix it, but they dont, so he talks to the manager, the manager tells him to fix it himself so my friend calls corporate, and they investigate my regional manager who almost loses his job. Well shit rolls downhill. But Ill get to that in a second. There is also this dickwad at work. A hispanic guy named eddie. He is the type of guy that sues at the drop of a hat, and writes shit down on nopepads to bring up later, just a complete douche. He is constantly making mexican jokes and swearing and shit, but would instantly go to the manager if anyone else said anything. He's a giant douche. Well me an my friend are out with all the other agents, talking and one dude toney gets some peanut butter cookies. Eddie says "Sweet peanut butter cookies" in his mexican accent and my friend makes a joke about his accent saying it was cool. Then i said "yea man, youve got a cool accent" Thats all i said. I said NOTHING insulting. so to tie these together. I had a meeting a couple days ago. I was told i wasnt trusted and that i was biting that hand that feeds me, even though I WASNT THE FUCKING ONE THAT CALLED CORPORATE, I DID NOTHING. then i was told eddie was offended by me, and that id have to watch it, he said i offended his culture. I go in to work today and I am told im suspended. I have no words to tell you how angry i am. I DIDNT EVEN FUCKING DO ANYTHING. skahjgfasdgfhjkgaskdhjgfhjkasdfhjkgaskdhjgfhjkgasdhkgf. so angry
so to reitterate.
I lost a 3 year relationship because she said she was scared, I moved, I'm struggling with money, my job gave me hope, and at this point is smashing it away. Sigh.
Someone, anyone, just lie and say things will start looking up.
 
tell them the hand that feeds you has a whip in the other hand and if they wanna make something out of it you'll be happy to get a lawyer and contact local news who is always looking for stories about companies fucking employees.. dont tell them of how it wasnt you.. that just passes the blame.. just ask them if this is thier idea of proper treatment of employees who make complaints agains the company that owes them money? and if they think its right to suspend someone for allegedly badmouthing a persons culture when that person makes comments against his own culture all day long that only entices people to joke along with him..

one of my biggest hates is employers fucking with my money... I go nuts over that shit... i work hard for my cash and when some asshole wants to play games with it, it sets me on a rampage. Another is faggots who double standard on racism.. Like black who think its all ok to walk up to eachother and say yo what up niggaz... but if a white guy starts a word with N they wanna kick his ass..

as for fuck face if you really wanna screw him do what he does.. write every word he says down.. make him nervous as fuck and when he asks tell him you think he makes racist comments and yet would screw anyone who troubles him, so your writing down conversations to prove he's a racist.. or something... likely he'll just stop.. or stop talking to you and your friend...
 
for the love of god thank you. I was ready to rip my hair out if someone didnt see say that i wasnt in the wrong and that this is a very fucked up scenario.
/me sighs
/me pays darklight the promised 5$
 
Do what a friend of mine does....walk around with a digital recorder at work and announce that the conversation is being recorded whenever someone approaches you. You'll notice they'll treat you better. I know it's kinda strange but fuck it.
 
Well like the first guy I ever worked for in the Navy told me...and not to piss in your bowl of cornflakes here but it has always held true... "Don't Worry It Will Only Get Worse". So much for PMA.
 
lol, ive got no prob handling all of it. its times like this that build character. just wanted one freakin person to tell me the world is insane, not me. just knowing a few people can sit back and say "oh yea man, thats gotta hurt, they arent even using vaseline." makes me feel great. sigh. i think im just tired of being overly politically correct, overly polite, and fake. People have to much power to that extent in the workplace. bah. ranting again
 
It isn't the lack of vasilene you need to watch out for. It is when they hit you with a senak-a-poke with a sand paper condom on. I men you want to talk about sand paper I could go into a 20 page burning missive about breach of contracts. well screw it I will give you a few lines at least. I reenlisted a year and a half back (knowing fully what kind of fuck nuts I dealing with). The terms of my reenlistment were that I was reenlisting for a specific set of orders. The orders were to a ship in Bahrain (I'm not even going to lie, it was all about the money not country service or anything else). I got the orders and life was good. About 6 months later (right before transfer time) I get a message saying my orders have been "modified" saying I am now going to Ingleside Texas. That to me was like a prison gang bang style rape. Half the ammount of money to do the same job in about the same climate the only difference is now I would have to exist in the same state that spwaned forth our fearless leader. So I bitch and moan and dig in and prep for a fight over this one. In the end they said we still gave you the orders you wanted so shut the fuck up and go to work...then I found someone at the new command willing to "help" me. He cut me lose to send me to one of the same ships that was in Japan that needed me worse than they did.... needless to say I fucking hate it here cuz I am still only banking about half the money I would make in Bahrain....making the same ammount but the cost of living is so off the chart... Now the thing that still pisses me off to this day is that the military would have had my ass in a sling if right befor my report date I sent them a message saying I'm not going to Bahrain I'm going to Point Loman CA. They would have sent me through a ringer then booted me out. So yah it could be worse. You could be working for a soul sucking jerk, who promises to send you to one company location, decides to send you to one you abhore, comprimises and sends you to one you never wanted to go to but didn't totaly dislike until you got there, and then will not let you quit until you complete your "contract". Work sucks and "...it will only get worse".
 
my EAOS cant get here fucking soon enough. I am saving all of my leave (at the risk of my sanity) at this point so I can take it all on terminal... leave is only a temp escape from this hell hole of a command I got stuck with. Terminal leave is a totaly different beast. I am looking at about 75 days of terminal if I dont take any to go to Thailand to visite the adult Disney Land for Christmass...sorry got to take some aggression out somewhere. Then I will be off for a 3 month backpacking excursion starting in St. Petersburg and ending up in Holland. That is what keeps me alive on a daily basis.... Makes the daily rapeings sufferable.
 
You might think twice about working for someone who's willing to fuck you over to save his own ass. It could very well happen again...I mean, he's already shown you his true colors.

And to cryptrocket:
All I have to say is: YOU REENLISTED, you dumb fuck! (with a smile). You didn't already know what it was all about? Not even the fat ass signing bonuses could convince me to re-up for another tour. Sucks that they screwed you over, though..I feel you.
Suck it up, man...your time will come and then all you'll remember are the good times. You get out what you put in, man...live it up while you still can. Japan was one of the coolest places to go..have fun with it.
 
Well Japanland is cool but this fucking command never gives me time off to go see it.... And even they preach that we should go out and expirence the place but when you are working fucking 14 - 16 hour days all you want to expirence is a shower and a pillow.... And it isnt like we even do anything real or important. We look for non existant water laid mines. The only reason I reenlisted was for Bahrain.... but t - 364 days as of today.... as i was smart enough to only sign up for 2 more.... fucking fuckers....

Oh good to hear it got worked out at work. I would consider changing jobs.... dont join the military. Unless you want to get analy violated by the pros...
 
so clearly... it could be worse crypt. this is why i post here. because someone somewhere is having a suckier time than me, and they manage to reply to my posts :D
 
Thanks. It has improved my existance to know that my suffering has brought some comfort to another. Maybe I should look into a new field of work myself. I wonder howmuch much martyrdom or self immolation pays? :)
 
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