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I'm fascinated by the topic of women and testing, i.e. how some women will purposely or subconsciously create drama to see if a man is in control, invested, and relationship worthy. I read about it before in other dating advice materials, but really was never sure if it was true especially since this concept is rarely talked about and information on it is hard to find (which makes me question its validity).
Apparently it does exist, not every girl is like this. How are men supposed to know if they are being tested and if his girl is a tester? Say she is mad out of the blue, how do i know if there's a reason or if it's a test? If she ignores my phone calls, is she rejecting me, scared to confront me, or mad at me? The man's reactions could come off as caring, insensitive, or needy -- all reactions that could basically make or break a relationship.
A book like "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus" doesn't even mention any of this... a guy who read that book would always be taught to be thoughtful and consoling, but this can come across as a pushover at times?
Thanks!!
Apparently it does exist, not every girl is like this. How are men supposed to know if they are being tested and if his girl is a tester? Say she is mad out of the blue, how do i know if there's a reason or if it's a test? If she ignores my phone calls, is she rejecting me, scared to confront me, or mad at me? The man's reactions could come off as caring, insensitive, or needy -- all reactions that could basically make or break a relationship.
A book like "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus" doesn't even mention any of this... a guy who read that book would always be taught to be thoughtful and consoling, but this can come across as a pushover at times?
Thanks!!