Women: a sex question. When you're having sex with a guy..?

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This should perhaps be in the singles and dating category, but it seems the answers in this section are more experienced and less "like totally omg does this guy in my 9th grade English class like me?;);):*>?"

question- when you're having sex with a guy does it matter either way to you if he tells you when he is going to orgasm?
It seems I (a man) always do- and I myself find it annoying- I'd rather not even give a crap and just have at it
when I'm masturbating alone it's not like I proclaim to myself when I'm going to c*m
but to me during sex it feels for one like a warning, as in "if you need any more right now you'd better tell me RIGHT now because my space shuttle is about to hit the atmosphere and at that point there is no turning back"
but saying "imuhhbouttoocuuhhmm" is the easiest way to convey that when I can barely speak other than in guttural grunts (hopefully)

but also for me it is also a way to convey to the dame I'm with that "I hope you're conveying to me also if you're cumming or not too because otherwise I won't know if I need to make some technical adjustments

but really I would prefer to not vocalize it at all and just let go,
but there's no better buzzkill than hearing the woman say "oh I was so close" or whatnot

is there a consensus on this?
I've also been complimented for my giving nature, which really for me is a bit of s buzzkill also, forgetting that I'm supposed to be enjoying this also- but you know, in a way communication really gets in the way of the enjoyment

Do men often just orgasm with no warning?
Am I maybe an anomaly?
Should I not worryabout it and just orgasm with no heads-up?
 
that was wayy too long and too much blabbing. anyways in my experience i dont prefer to use condoms so my ex would always pull out so he always had to say when he was going to c*m because he either had to pull out or i had to hop off. my hubby now doesnt need to pull out so he rarely announces it he just lets out these huge growns and pulls my hair.
 
Every guy I have ever been with says "I'm about to cum" right before they have an orgasm. It kinda turns me on and makes me think about them cumming and makes me cum sometimes . I think you are doing the right thing, It has never bothered me when a guy did this in fact it is a turn on.
 
Every guy I have ever been with says "I'm about to cum" right before they have an orgasm. It kinda turns me on and makes me think about them cumming and makes me cum sometimes . I think you are doing the right thing, It has never bothered me when a guy did this in fact it is a turn on.
 
that was wayy too long and too much blabbing. anyways in my experience i dont prefer to use condoms so my ex would always pull out so he always had to say when he was going to c*m because he either had to pull out or i had to hop off. my hubby now doesnt need to pull out so he rarely announces it he just lets out these huge growns and pulls my hair.
 
Every guy I have ever been with says "I'm about to cum" right before they have an orgasm. It kinda turns me on and makes me think about them cumming and makes me cum sometimes . I think you are doing the right thing, It has never bothered me when a guy did this in fact it is a turn on.
 
that was wayy too long and too much blabbing. anyways in my experience i dont prefer to use condoms so my ex would always pull out so he always had to say when he was going to c*m because he either had to pull out or i had to hop off. my hubby now doesnt need to pull out so he rarely announces it he just lets out these huge growns and pulls my hair.
 
Every guy I have ever been with says "I'm about to cum" right before they have an orgasm. It kinda turns me on and makes me think about them cumming and makes me cum sometimes . I think you are doing the right thing, It has never bothered me when a guy did this in fact it is a turn on.
 
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