Is it a must? do you always try to keep your house clean and cook dinnner for your husband? do you feel like it is your job, or you think you and your husband needs to rotate for cooking dinners. I am a newly married wife and i am not used at doing houseworks(maybe i am a spoiled girl, mom used to do those for me). It is somewhat stressful for me to keep the house clean and cooking every night. I just want to hear everyone's opinion.